Dependability

Dependability is a big thing, its always part of your life. there is always some one who is 100% dependable and you know there will be for you no matter what. then theres those people that you can never count on they flake on everything. after awhile you just stop asking them to hang out or for a favor. i think being to dependable 100% of the time can be bad, people start to take advantage of you. i guess you should do the things you say you will do but don't say yes to everything people wont you to do. i believe I'm a person people can count on, I'm there if i say i will be.

Honesty

Honesty...is my number one in every aspect of my life. I always say just tell me the truth because, not if but when I find out your lying you might as well loose my number. I hate liars, just cant stand them. I suppose the reason for that is that I have been around them my whole life. People saying there going to be there and then not show up. I have heard to many lies that I just wont put up with them any more. when i was young I remember my dad always being in and out of my life. He would tell my he would be right back then I wouldn't see him for a long time. So now that I'm older I can pick who I keep in my life so I don't keep the liars anymore.

planning

            what is there to say about planning....some people do nothing but plan. there whole lives are planned out,either by choice or by there parents. i have seen the people who have to plan out every single thing, even when its time to have fun. i don't think that's any way to live. there are things that need to be planed like a wedding or your schooling. then there are things that should just happen like spending time with your kids or with the whole family. i personally like to plan somethings like school and some day my wedding but other things i just let happen. i just let life happen some times its good other times its bad. i will say that the people that do plan have a better control of what happens in there life, and sometimes i do feel a little unorganized. but i am getting better at planning things out, so ill just take it one day at a time.

goals

Goals... that's a word that is different to everyone. Some people just want a good job, some peoples goals are to be a rock star. My main goal is to be a good mother. I want to raise my daughter to be the best person she can be. Some of my other goals are to stay in and finish school. I don't want to give up when things get to hard. I want to get my Ph.D in psychology. I know it will take a lot of work and determination but I believe I can do it. Education is very important to me I know you need it to get anywhere in life. I don't want to live paycheck to paycheck like my parents do. I want to be able to take time off when I want to. I want a lot of time with my family. When I make my goals I try to make the big ones in to lots of short goals like just going back to school was a short goal to get my Ph.D. Making my goals like that makes it easier for me and so I don't get discourage from my big goal.